One of my New Year's resolutions is to give each boy half an hour of undivided attention daily. It has been somewhat challenging for me because I am a multi-tasker. I know I will not regret in the long run the moments that I take to play with my children. But there is so much to DO daily and sometimes I rationalize things. Anyway, in the month and a half since I have been doing this, I have seen such an improvement in my relationships with my boys. No, it's not perfect--sometimes that half hour seems to drag forever. Sometimes it's interrupted. Sometimes it doesn't happen at all. But when I do my best, they respond beautifully.
It is usually more of a challenge for me to get Jed's one-on-one time in, simply because of the nature of our days. I have begun letting him have a rest (aka, watch TV for an hour) after lunch, while I eat my lunch, and then he is much more willing to craft or do homework or read or play with me. Everyone needs and deserves time to decompress after a day at school! We did a few Valentine crafts this month I'd like to share.
First up are our Bird Valentines. We love watching the birds and always try to give them a little something extra this time of year!
This was super easy--we just strung cheerios on pipe cleaners bent into heart shapes, twisted the ends closed, tied ribbons on the hearts, and hung them outside.
Jed had a good time doing this and we talked about our favorite birds and listened to our bird CD while we did it. The "valentines" have been a good way to stretch the seeds in our feeders as well--we have some
voracious birds around here! I also liked this craft because it was a good fine-motor activity.
Next up are our "love bugs."
We gathered large pom-poms, foam hearts, pipe cleaners and googly eyes and glued them together to make little bugs.
Jed looks super thrilled, but in reality, he loved these. We made several more after this, because Jed kept thinking of funny ways he wanted their antennae shaped or a different configuration of eyes, or a different color scheme.
Again, simple and cute seems to be working well for us.
Finally, we made Valentine penguins. This was a pretty basic paper craft but surprisingly fun for Jed.
I cut out two penguin shapes, two large white hearts and 6 small orange hearts. We glued everything into place and added googly eyes.
I am not sure why these photos won't rotate--argh. Anyway, I think they turned out really cute. We found some adorable books about penguins at the library and it was fun to be able to act them out with our valentine penguins.
We also made valentine cards for everyone...which I keep forgetting to mail. It still counts if they get mailed during February, right?